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	<title>Adventures in home working &#187; Kids</title>
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	<description>I'm Steve Richards a strategist and all round tech enthusiast working on enterprise desktop, application delivery and collaboration solutions. I work from home by the coast in the North West of England.  All the views expressed in this blog are my own.</description>
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		<title>On holiday this week</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Jul 2006 00:27:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Richards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am on holiday this week and all 4 kids are doing activities (film and video, drama and sports club) so Debbie and I are able to spend from about 10:00 &#8211; 16:00 on our own just relaxing in and around our home town &#8211; St Anne&#8217;s on Sea.&#160; At home I like nothing more [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img alt="Picture040_08Apr05" src="http://steves.seasidelife.com/Picture040_08Apr05_small.jpg" align="right" border="0" />I am on holiday this week and all 4 kids are doing activities (film and video, drama and sports club) so Debbie and I are able to spend from about 10:00 &ndash; 16:00 on our own just relaxing in and around our home town &ndash; St Anne&#8217;s on Sea.&nbsp; At home I like nothing more than a mix of long walks along the coast (east to Lytham and West to Blackpool), simple Cafe food, cycling, meditation and reading and the last few&nbsp;weeks the weather has been superb, with glorious sun with a warm breeze.&nbsp; When the kids get home it&rsquo;s time for swimming and beach games &ndash; perfect.&nbsp; </p>
<p>4 days into this relaxing routine and it&rsquo;s also noticeable that my arthritis pain is fading fast,&nbsp; a few years ago and after a weeks holiday it would be gone completely, now it never goes completely but relaxation and many hours of exercise definitely still has a very beneficial effect.</p>
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		<title>For the love of movement</title>
		<link>http://steves.seasidelife.com/2006/04/28/for-the-love-of-movement/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Apr 2006 00:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Richards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Kathy has yet another amazing post on her Creating Passionate Users site about the fact that animals love exercise, and she questions why we don&#8217;t.&#160; Well whilst I think its a great article with wonderful pictures of her horses if she came around to my house and saw my four girls bouncing on the trampoline [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://headrush.typepad.com/about.html"><img height="187" alt="Trampolines" src="http://steves.seasidelife.com/trampolines.gif" width="160" align="right" border="0" />Kathy</a> has yet another <a href="http://headrush.typepad.com/creating_passionate_users/2006/04/animals_love_ex.html">amazing post</a> on her <a href="http://headrush.typepad.com/creating_passionate_users/">Creating Passionate Users</a> site about the fact that animals love exercise, and she questions why we don&rsquo;t.&nbsp; Well whilst I think its a great article with wonderful pictures of her horses if she came around to my house and saw my four girls bouncing on the trampoline she would see a lot of parallels with her horses.&nbsp; Some of us love exercise too, and its not just the kids round here who love the trampoline, the beach, the sand dunes, the tennis courts, the swimming pool&nbsp;and their bikes!</p>
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		<title>A whole new mind</title>
		<link>http://steves.seasidelife.com/2006/02/19/a-whole-new-mind/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Feb 2006 17:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Richards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last week I read the book “A whole new mind” by Daniel H. Pink.&#160; I found it very interesting, especially – as a parent of 4 girls – I am increasingly concerned about their futures.&#160; Daniel describes in this book the skills that are going to be needed to succeed in the future.&#160; The following [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><P>Last week I read the book “A whole new mind” by Daniel H. Pink.&nbsp; I found it very interesting, especially – as a parent of 4 girls – I am increasingly concerned about their futures.&nbsp; Daniel describes in this book the skills that are going to be needed to succeed in the future.&nbsp; The following mindmap is a summary of the book.&nbsp; A more details version of the map is also attached, as a PDF and a native MindManager file.</P> <P><IMG height=697 alt="A whole new mind" src="http://steves.seasidelife.com/A_20whole_20new_20mind.jpeg" width=800 align=middle border=0></P> <P>One of the nice features of the book is that at the end of each section it includes exercises that you can use to develop these skills, I started a mindmap of these two which is shown below and again&nbsp;a more details version of the map is also attached, as a PDF and a native MindManager file.</P> <P><IMG height=528 alt=Skills src="http://steves.seasidelife.com/Skills.jpeg" width=800 align=middle border=0></P> <P><a href="http://steves.seasidelife.com/Skills.pdf">File Attachment: Skills.pdf (279 KB)</A></P> <P><a href="http://steves.seasidelife.com/Skills.mmap">File Attachment: Skills.mmap (57 KB)</A></P> <P><a href="http://steves.seasidelife.com/A_20whole_20new_20mind.mmap">File Attachment: A whole new mind.mmap (55 KB)</A></P> <P><a href="http://steves.seasidelife.com/A_20whole_20new_20mind.pdf">File Attachment: A whole new mind.pdf (86 KB)</A></P></p>
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		<title>Stop smoking!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2005 00:52:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Richards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My youngest daughters (twins) have been studying smoking,&#160; Tessa has just finished her anti-smoking poster, which I wanted to share with you:
Don&#8217;t smoke because people out there have died.
Just because of cigarettes and people suffered from lots of illnesses.
So you will get illnesses.
Children can get Asthma if smoke is around them.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img height="108" alt="Stopsmoking" src="http://steves.seasidelife.com/stopsmoking.jpg" width="69" align="right" border="0" />My youngest daughters (twins) have been studying smoking,&nbsp; Tessa has just finished her anti-smoking poster, which I wanted to share with you:</p>
<p align="center">Don&rsquo;t smoke because people out there have died.</p>
<p align="center">Just because of cigarettes and people suffered from lots of illnesses.</p>
<p align="center">So you will get illnesses.</p>
<p align="center">Children can get Asthma if smoke is around them.</p>
<p align="center">So after you have read this bit of information</p>
<p align="center">Please stop.</p>
<p align="center">Please.</p>
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		<title>Find what you love</title>
		<link>http://steves.seasidelife.com/2005/06/29/find-what-you-love/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2005 17:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Richards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img height="106" alt="Stawberries2" src="http://steves.seasidelife.com/stawberries2.jpg" width="141" align="right" border="0" />I am still on a journey of discovery to try and &#8220;find what I love doing&#8221;,&#160; I am fairly content in my work, find it interesting and challenging, but I don&#8217;t feel I make a difference, at home I spend most of the time with my family &#8211; which is great &#8211; but very internal focused.&#160; I would like both work and home life to change over time to be more community centred and to feel that I am giving something back to the world and that I live in a more natural and sustainable way.&#160; My relatively poor health is currently the excuse I hide behind that stops me taking the risk associated with change.</p><p>I do however continue to be on the lookout for advise in this area and I recently cam across these two articles, one by Steve Jobs &#8211; <span class="headline"><a href="http://news-service.stanford.edu/news/2005/june15/jobs-061505.html">You've got to find what you love</a>&#160;and the other my Dave Pollard <a href="http://blogs.salon.com/0002007/categories/businessInnovation/2005/06/27.html#a1193">'Business' Advice for Young Adults (and Their Parents &#38; Teachers)</a>.&#160; Check them out if you ever think about your work or worry about how you are preparing your kids to help them make good choices about their future work choices.</span></p>



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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img height="106" alt="Stawberries2" src="http://steves.seasidelife.com/stawberries2.jpg" width="141" align="right" border="0" />I am still on a journey of discovery to try and &ldquo;find what I love doing&rdquo;,&nbsp; I am fairly content in my work, find it interesting and challenging, but I don&rsquo;t feel I make a difference, at home I spend most of the time with my family &ndash; which is great &ndash; but very internal focused.&nbsp; I would like both work and home life to change over time to be more community centred and to feel that I am giving something back to the world and that I live in a more natural and sustainable way.&nbsp; My relatively poor health is currently the excuse I hide behind that stops me taking the risk associated with change.</p>
<p>I do however continue to be on the lookout for advise in this area and I recently cam across these two articles, one by Steve Jobs &ndash; <span class="headline"><a href="http://news-service.stanford.edu/news/2005/june15/jobs-061505.html">You&#8217;ve got to find what you love</a>&nbsp;and the other my Dave Pollard <a href="http://blogs.salon.com/0002007/categories/businessInnovation/2005/06/27.html#a1193">&#8216;Business&#8217; Advice for Young Adults (and Their Parents &amp; Teachers)</a>.&nbsp; Check them out if you ever think about your work or worry about how you are preparing your kids to help them make good choices about their future work choices.</span></p>
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		<title>Role change weekend</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2005 22:51:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Richards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img height="114" alt="Housework" src="http://steves.seasidelife.com/housework.jpg" width="98" align="right" border="0" />As I work from home I tend to make sure I do my share of the housework.&#160; My normal daily jobs include:</p><ul><li>tidying the bedrooms</li><li>making the beds</li><li>washing, drying and putting away the clothes</li></ul><p>Well Debbie and I have been finding our respective daily tasks a bit of a grind, so on Friday we decided that we would swap jobs every weekend.&#160; So this weekend I have been:</p><ul><li>making all of the meals</li><li>setting the table</li><li>clearing the table, washing up, drying and putting away the pots</li></ul><p>it&#8217;s been a great success, I have loved not having to do my jobs, and really enjoyed my new weekend jobs.&#160; By Sunday I had change the routine and made it a lot more organised and peaceful and had written up (stephie laminated for me) a crib sheet that tells me all of the kids favorite meals, vegetables, fruit, drinks etc, as with 4 kids<em>&#160; </em>I am always forgetting&#160; Hopefully a weeks break from them will mean I enjoy these tasks every weekend, as they say &#8220;a change is as good as a rest&#8221;.</p>



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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img height="114" alt="Housework" src="http://steves.seasidelife.com/housework.jpg" width="98" align="right" border="0" />As I work from home I tend to make sure I do my share of the housework.&nbsp; My normal daily jobs include:</p>
<ul>
<li>tidying the bedrooms</li>
<li>making the beds</li>
<li>washing, drying and putting away the clothes</li>
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<p>Well Debbie and I have been finding our respective daily tasks a bit of a grind, so on Friday we decided that we would swap jobs every weekend.&nbsp; So this weekend I have been:</p>
<ul>
<li>making all of the meals</li>
<li>setting the table</li>
<li>clearing the table, washing up, drying and putting away the pots</li>
</ul>
<p>it&rsquo;s been a great success, I have loved not having to do my jobs, and really enjoyed my new weekend jobs.&nbsp; By Sunday I had change the routine and made it a lot more organised and peaceful and had written up (stephie laminated for me) a crib sheet that tells me all of the kids favorite meals, vegetables, fruit, drinks etc, as with 4 kids<em>&nbsp; </em>I am always forgetting&nbsp; Hopefully a weeks break from them will mean I enjoy these tasks every weekend, as they say &ldquo;a change is as good as a rest&rdquo;.</p>
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		<title>Kids and Tablets</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 May 2005 22:57:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Richards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img height="216" alt="Kidsusingtablets" src="http://steves.seasidelife.com/kidsusingtablets_small.jpg" width="150" align="right" border="0" />My daughter has recently inherited by old Tablet PC, a TC1000.&#160; She has an auto-immune disorder and secondary <font size="2"><a href="http://www.raynauds.org.uk/flash_content.html">Raynaud&#8217;s</a> </font>and these conditions mean that she suffers from cold hands, is very stiff and not that strong.&#160; As a result she often struggles to carry her bag around and with writing.&#160; About a year ago I wrote an <a href="http://steves.seasidelife.com/blog/_archives/2004/8/25/129343.html">article</a> explaining why I thought a Tablet would help here and a few weeks ago I demonstrated my Tablet to the school teachers and her assessors.&#160; As a result they have agreed that they will try and get her a grant for a Tablet ready for high school which is great news.&#160; In addition they will get her a <a href="http://shop.nationalarchivist.com/acatalog/Products_Book_Scanner_37.html">book scanner</a>.&#160; Although scanned books are not perfect, nor many eBooks, as I <a href="http://steves.seasidelife.com/blog/_archives/2005/2/28/384430.html">mention here</a>, they are often better than paper.</p><p>In preparation she is taking her Tablet into school 3 days a week to get used to the logistics and the envious kids and how to deal with them.&#160; Since she got the Tablet I noticed that she has started using the computer at home a lot more as well.&#160; I often find her sitting in bed browsing the web, writing ...



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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img height="216" alt="Kidsusingtablets" src="http://steves.seasidelife.com/kidsusingtablets_small.jpg" width="150" align="right" border="0" />My daughter has recently inherited by old Tablet PC, a TC1000.&nbsp; She has an auto-immune disorder and secondary <font size="2"><a href="http://www.raynauds.org.uk/flash_content.html">Raynaud&rsquo;s</a> </font>and these conditions mean that she suffers from cold hands, is very stiff and not that strong.&nbsp; As a result she often struggles to carry her bag around and with writing.&nbsp; About a year ago I wrote an <a href="http://steves.seasidelife.com/blog/_archives/2004/8/25/129343.html">article</a> explaining why I thought a Tablet would help here and a few weeks ago I demonstrated my Tablet to the school teachers and her assessors.&nbsp; As a result they have agreed that they will try and get her a grant for a Tablet ready for high school which is great news.&nbsp; In addition they will get her a <a href="http://shop.nationalarchivist.com/acatalog/Products_Book_Scanner_37.html">book scanner</a>.&nbsp; Although scanned books are not perfect, nor many eBooks, as I <a href="http://steves.seasidelife.com/blog/_archives/2005/2/28/384430.html">mention here</a>, they are often better than paper.</p>
<p>In preparation she is taking her Tablet into school 3 days a week to get used to the logistics and the envious kids and how to deal with them.&nbsp; Since she got the Tablet I noticed that she has started using the computer at home a lot more as well.&nbsp; I often find her sitting in bed browsing the web, writing her journal etc.</p>
<p>In this context I was interested to see <a href="http://pittsburghlive.com/x/tribune-review/education/s_332353.html">this report</a> on a trial of Tablets for kids of Jen&rsquo;s age group, some interesting quotes are:</p>
<blockquote dir="ltr" style="MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px"><p><em>Carnegie Mellon University is conducting an experiment at The Ellis School and one of CMU&#8217;s own classes in which traditional textbooks are replaced with a Tablet personal computer. The HP Compaq 1100 Tablet PCs weigh 4 pounds and have been adapted so students can highlight key passages on the screen and write on the e-text with a digital pen. Students also can send their homework on the Tablet PCs and get material from their teachers. </em></p>
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<p dir="ltr">They mention an important caution, which is especially an issue for A4 content, not so big an issue with text books:</p>
<blockquote dir="ltr" style="MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px"><p><em>&#8220;Nationally, students have not warmed up to e-texts at first because they saw little advantage in them,&#8221; said Diana Oblinger, vice president of EDUCAUSE, a nonprofit group in Boulder, Colo., interested in technology in higher education. She said the print on the screen used to be harder to read than regular texts, and the software lacked features to encourage people to use it. </em>
<p><em>That is beginning to change as new software lets students do more things than they could do with a textbook.</em> </p>
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<p dir="ltr">Others have Jen&rsquo;s problem too:</p>
<blockquote dir="ltr" style="MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px"><p><em>Before this experiment, Chao said her 6-year-old brother Bobby could not even lift her bookbag, which often contained four textbooks and three binders. The bookbag of her classmate Heather Acuff, 14, of McCandless, was so heavy that she used to roll it around on wheels. </em></p>
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<p dir="ltr">It has changed the way teachers work:</p>
<blockquote dir="ltr" style="MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px"><p><em>Nine eighth-graders at Ellis have replaced their hardback geometry and earth science texts with Tablet PCs. The geometry class uses software developed by Shadyside-based TextCENTRIC that allows students to highlight passages and trade material with their teacher. </em>
<p><em>Math teacher Russ Schopper presents a problem on a computerized blackboard. The same image appears on the students&#8217; 8-by-10-by-1-inch computers. A split screen lets the students solve the problem on one side and refer to the textbook on the other.</em> </p>
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<p dir="ltr">Kids have the same problems we do with PC&rsquo;s:</p>
<blockquote dir="ltr" style="MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px"><p><em>Ellis students complain of long startup times for the PC and the danger of computer crashes, but the benefits, they say, outweigh the disadvantages. </em></p>
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		<title>More evidence that going paperless is a good idea!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 May 2005 23:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Richards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><IMG height=75 alt=Shot6 src="http://steves.seasidelife.com/shot6.jpg" width=99 align=right border=0>I have thought for a long time that <a href="http://steves.seasidelife.com/blog/_archives/2005/3/3/393212.html">going paperless</a> was a good strategy. Now I know why, Microsoft has posted 3 great videos that demonstrate the dangers of office stationary.&#160; They really are worth watching, preferably with the family as they are very funny.&#160; Another tip,&#160; make sure you watch them through a few times watching the background characters as well for best effect!</p><p>First up, the <a href="http://download.microsoft.com/download/a/5/8/a582925c-23bc-4cb4-939a-dfb57ee1dda3/rubber-band.wmv">Elastic Band</a> next the <a href="http://download.microsoft.com/download/a/5/8/a582925c-23bc-4cb4-939a-dfb57ee1dda3/papercut.wmv">Paper Cut</a> and finally the <a href="http://download.microsoft.com/download/a/5/8/a582925c-23bc-4cb4-939a-dfb57ee1dda3/bad-pen.wmv">Bad Pen</a></p><p>Visit the <a href="http://www.stationeryisbad.com/movie2.html">web site</a> for more information</p>

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><P><IMG height=75 alt=Shot6 src="http://steves.seasidelife.com/shot6.jpg" width=99 align=right border=0>I have thought for a long time that <a href="http://steves.seasidelife.com/blog/_archives/2005/3/3/393212.html">going paperless</A> was a good strategy. Now I know why, Microsoft has posted 3 great videos that demonstrate the dangers of office stationary.&nbsp; They really are worth watching, preferably with the family as they are very funny.&nbsp; Another tip,&nbsp; make sure you watch them through a few times watching the background characters as well for best effect!</P> <P>First up, the <a href="http://download.microsoft.com/download/a/5/8/a582925c-23bc-4cb4-939a-dfb57ee1dda3/rubber-band.wmv">Elastic Band</A> next the <a href="http://download.microsoft.com/download/a/5/8/a582925c-23bc-4cb4-939a-dfb57ee1dda3/papercut.wmv">Paper Cut</A> and finally the <a href="http://download.microsoft.com/download/a/5/8/a582925c-23bc-4cb4-939a-dfb57ee1dda3/bad-pen.wmv">Bad Pen</A></P> <P>Visit the <a href="http://www.stationeryisbad.com/movie2.html">web site</A> for more information</P></p>
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		<title>100 things about me</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 May 2005 04:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Richards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<ol><li>I was born in Lincoln in England in 1963</li><li>I have one brother 2 1/2 years younger than me</li><li>My Grandma claimed to be a medium, she was certainly very wise, and she told very convincing stories</li><li>My Mum&#8217;s&#160;Grandad was Major of Lincoln</li><li>I grew up with tremendous freedom roaming the countryside, building sites, abandoned airfields and gravel pits and reading</li><li>My parents were amazing, I don&#8217;t ever remember being put under pressure, or ever feeling that I needed to work to gain their love and approval</li><li>I grew up in a house with a huge garden and 50 tree orchard, the source of endless play</li><li>I was a slow starter at school, I was 13 before I actually started to move up the sets, and never really found my feet academically until I was doing my first degree</li><li>I suffered badly from acne as a boy and still suffer a bit now at 41,&#160; but I learned not to let that sort of thing bother me, and learned to be happy with myself</li><li>I suffered very badly from Migraine and Hay-fever as a child and remember spending lots of days debilitated by one or the other</li><li>When I was ...

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><OL> <LI>I was born in Lincoln in England in 1963</LI> <LI>I have one brother 2 1/2 years younger than me</LI> <LI>My Grandma claimed to be a medium, she was certainly very wise, and she told very convincing stories</LI> <LI>My Mum&#8217;s&nbsp;Grandad was Major of Lincoln</LI> <LI>I grew up with tremendous freedom roaming the countryside, building sites, abandoned airfields and gravel pits and reading</LI> <LI>My parents were amazing, I don&#8217;t ever remember being put under pressure, or ever feeling that I needed to work to gain their love and approval</LI> <LI>I grew up in a house with a huge garden and 50 tree orchard, the source of endless play</LI> <LI>I was a slow starter at school, I was 13 before I actually started to move up the sets, and never really found my feet academically until I was doing my first degree</LI> <LI>I suffered badly from acne as a boy and still suffer a bit now at 41,&nbsp; but I learned not to let that sort of thing bother me, and learned to be happy with myself</LI> <LI>I suffered very badly from Migraine and Hay-fever as a child and remember spending lots of days debilitated by one or the other</LI> <LI>When I was about 4 I&nbsp;woke up one morning in the spring and a wasp was crawling up my bed, I could not get out of bed and still don&#8217;t remember what happened.&nbsp; I have a phobia of wasps to this day</LI> <LI>When I was about 14 I had to read Shakespeare out load,&nbsp; I had an asthma attack from the nerves and could not read at all fluently, people laughed.&nbsp; I still have a fear of public speaking, although 10 weeks of speakers club helped a little</LI> <LI>I always remember working, my childhood jobs were gardening, apple picking and selling, washing up, preparing fruit and veg for bulk freezing, running errands for old folks, pumping water from the well, window cleaning round, school librarian, school lab boy, school odd-job repair man.&nbsp; I was never short of money!</LI> <LI>From a fairly young age I had an allowance for, and bought, my own clothes and food</LI> <LI>I love home backed bread and other simple foods</LI> <LI>I used to help my dad repair cars and we also refurbished an old army ambulance to make a camper, it was great fun and I wanted to be a mechanic</LI> <LI>I had two childhood pets a tortoise called Micky who turned out to be a girl (she laid eggs) and a cat called Scamp who had to be put down due to injuries from a car or dog (I never found out which).&nbsp;</LI> <LI>I had my finger sliced open at school by a closing door,&nbsp; I was accompanied to the hospital by a careers teacher who said he thought I could do better than be a mechanic, from that day I decided to be an engineer and have never tinkered with cars since</LI> <LI>On one of our holidays in the camper the big ends went in Kendall.&nbsp; Dad and me tried to fix it but we only got 20 miles before it failed again.&nbsp; We got home by train and Mum bought a copy of Here&#8217;s Health at the station and her life started to change.&nbsp; Ours changed as well but to a lesser extent.</LI> <LI>On another holiday shortly after, Dad broke his ankle rock hopping, this was the beginning of a string of bad luck with his health that partly drove Mum and Dad slowly apart, (drinking and smoking didn&#8217;t help either)</LI> <LI>I was shy at school and still am, especially in social situations.&nbsp; Years later a Vice President at work said &#8220;did I realise I probably had mild Asbergers Syndrome&#8221;.&nbsp; I looked it up, realised it was true and have never felt bad about being shy since</LI> <LI>I have always been very positive</LI> <LI>I have never been religious,&nbsp; for three main reasons.&nbsp; First I can not accept something so profound based on so little evidence,&nbsp; I can not accept the concept of a vengeful god as described in the bible and I can not accept the concept of a god that would want to be worshipped.</LI> <LI>I have always been content with myself and never felt the need for a God to make me whole</LI> <LI>My Dad spent most of his spare time working in the garage, or more truthfully tinkering.&nbsp; My Mum was always busy in the house and garden.&nbsp; I promised myself I would spend all of my spare time with my wife and kids</LI> <LI>I had plenty of friends at school, but few that I really wanted to spend time with outside of school</LI> <LI>I got 8 O Levels (4 A and 4 B) and took 9.&nbsp; </LI> <LI>I decided that I was never going to get a good mark in German so I decided to sacrifice it, and that it would be better to get ungraded because that did not appear on the certificate</LI> <LI>At A&nbsp;Level we were taught the wrong Maths syllabus so I got an E, I didn&#8217;t have the patience for Tech Drawing so I got a D and I got an A in Engineering and a B in Physics. I got an apology from the school for teaching me the wrong maths, but lost my place at Loughborough.&nbsp; So I went to Trent Polytechnic</LI> <LI>I never regretted for a moment going to Trent, it was a great course and I met my wife</LI> <LI>My wife&#8217;s name is Debbie, we were on the same course at Trent &#8211; Mechanical Engineering &#8211; I really&nbsp;got to know&nbsp;her when she got glandular fever, she had to go into hospital for a week or so and I popped in to see her,&nbsp; I decided on the way home that we would be married.&nbsp; I had to win her away from her boy friend so it took a few months before we started to go out, we were married shortly after graduating</LI> <LI>My Dad had a bad accident on his motor bike, the front of his leg was ripped off by a car that hit him.&nbsp; I am pretty sure it was not his fault &#8211; although we don&#8217;t talk about it.&nbsp; He was on hospital for a long time, had grafts etc.&nbsp; The leg never properly healed.&nbsp; Dad was never very keen on exercise after this.</LI> <LI>I started to mentor people seriously during my time at Trent and have continued ever since</LI> <LI>My first real job was working for Debbie&#8217;s Dad on work experience&nbsp;one summer</LI> <LI>Then I worked for a GEC company called English Electric Valves, who decided to sponsor me.&nbsp; Debbie was already sponsored by British Aerospace</LI> <LI>Debbie and I lived together during the 3rd and 4th years at Trent,&nbsp; it was a great time.&nbsp; We were both sponsored so we had plenty of money</LI> <LI>My Mum, after a life at home, decided she would lease a market stall and sell whole foods.&nbsp; It changed her life, but my Dad didn&#8217;t change and they grew apart and separated shortly after I graduated</LI> <LI>I graduated second in my year with a First,&nbsp; Debbie also got a first and came 4th.&nbsp; We were both pretty pleased</LI> <LI>I got offered all of the jobs I applied for, but decided to be near Debbie so took a job at the same British Aerospace site &#8211; Brough near Hull.</LI> <LI>After a very boring year working in Airframe Systems,&nbsp; I applied for an internal PHD in IT, this fell through but the IT department offered me a job and I never looked back</LI> <LI>We had two kittens Salt and Pepper, both black and white and brother and sister</LI> <LI>I was sponsored to do a part-time MBA in Engineering Business Management at Warwick University.&nbsp; I did pretty well.</LI> <LI>Debbie and I had our first child &#8211; Stephie</LI> <LI>We also took on two more kittens, one I found at work after her mother had been poisoned.&nbsp; She was a wild cat we called lucky.&nbsp; The other was&nbsp;a friend she made at the Cat Protection League &#8211; Joshy.</LI> <LI>Three of our cats died in car accidents, lucky is still with us, and still pretty wild unless she wants feeding</LI> <LI>I worked mainly in IT systems to support manufacturing engineering doing development and systems integration</LI> <LI>I learned to programme in Modula 2, Fortran, Pascal, Visual Basic, DCL, Perl, Python, VB Script</LI> <LI>I was a very early adopter of Windows NT 3.1</LI> <LI>I moved to do IT systems in support of engineering design</LI> <LI>I moved to do IT infrastructure architecture</LI> <LI>We had our second daughter &#8211; Jenny</LI> <LI>I decided there was no future in Brough so we moved directly across country to Warton</LI> <LI>The happiest I have ever been was in a small flat in Lytham St Annes, we put most of our stuff in store and lived a simple uncluttered life by the sea.</LI> <LI>I have lived in 14 different homes so far</LI> <LI>I have only ever had one job that existed before I took it, my first.&nbsp; I have had 10 jobs since and every one I have either invented or has been invented for me</LI> <LI>I moved to do IT solution design for major programmes</LI> <LI>I have Adult Onset Stills disease, It took 4 more years to get it diagnosed.&nbsp; </LI> <LI>I have&nbsp;Twins Tessa and Anna</LI> <LI>That&#8217;s 4 girls if you don&#8217;t count the cat</LI> <LI>Debbie, decided to&nbsp;re-join a&nbsp;church, just around the corner, after years away.&nbsp; It has made a great difference to her life, and continues to be very rewarding from both a spiritual and community perspective</LI> <LI>I once wasted a lot of money buying a posh car, and then deciding a year later to buy a practical one.&nbsp; The practical car kept cutting out on me and failing to start again for an hour or so, after a year they gave me a new one.&nbsp; I don&#8217;t bother about cars these days</LI> <LI>My life has been changed by Stills Disease,&nbsp; it means I have to work from home and only on specific types of work but it has changed my life for the better in many ways</LI> <LI>I live with daily pain</LI> <LI>I like gadgets, especially IT gadgets</LI> <LI>I like to make my own rules, that comply with the principles that underly the applicable rule book.&nbsp; I don&#8217;t feel compelled to follow &#8220;stupid rules&#8221;</LI> <LI>I rarely give in,&nbsp; I have spent too much time debugging thorny problems, that always have a solution in the end</LI> <LI>I know that most problems are probably my problems, I have spent too much time debugging my own code!</LI> <LI>I don&#8217;t like it when things don&#8217;t work properly</LI> <LI>I dislike conflict and competition that is not friendly</LI> <LI>I have strongly held opinions</LI> <LI>I like to work in small teams</LI> <LI>I like to mentor/develop people</LI> <LI>I read a lot, all sorts of books, even more variety since I decided to join a reading group at the Library</LI> <LI>I like to go to the cinema and theatre</LI> <LI>I love to walk and do so most days</LI> <LI>I love to swim and do so several times a week</LI> <LI>I love to cycle and do so once or twice a week, but wish I could do it more often</LI> <LI>After 12 years Debbie and me finally found a reliable baby sitter and now manage to go out once a week</LI> <LI>I like to build things</LI> <LI>I am a perfectionist at work and a &#8220;good enough&#8221; bodger at home</LI> <LI>My favorite book is <a href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0812533054/104-4335883-3114330?v=glance">The Seventh Son of a Seventh Son</A></LI> <LI>I am pretty emotional, for example I often cry &#8211;&nbsp;a little &#8211;&nbsp;&nbsp;when watching a good film</LI> <LI>I love open spaces, particularly the beach</LI> <LI>I am very lucky to live by the sea</LI> <LI>I like to eat out,&nbsp; I have my breakfast at a beach side Cafe most days, and the kids come too weekends and holidays</LI> <LI>I do all of the washing at home</LI> <LI>I like things to be neat and tidy.&nbsp; I find it difficult to relax in a mess</LI> <LI>I do not like large groups</LI> <LI>I don&#8217;t drink or smoke.&nbsp; I never liked the taste and did not feel peer pressure very strongly</LI> <LI>I am very picky with my food,&nbsp; I like what I like, and thats simple fare.&nbsp; That said I enjoy my food very much</LI> <LI>I don&#8217;t like&nbsp;hot drinks</LI> <LI>I don&#8217;t have an extravagant lifestyle</LI> <LI>I love a sunny day</LI> <LI>I have sun sensitive skin as a result of a reaction of the medication Roacutane, so I have to wear sun screen&nbsp;most days</LI> <LI>My favorite place is Filey in North Yorkshire, a sleepy fishing village</LI> <LI>Although I am not a Christian I admire the teachings of Christ</LI> <LI>I meditate most days</LI> <LI>I have been very poor and am not afraid of it</LI> <LI>I value my time</LI> <LI>I am happy with my life</LI></OL> <P>&nbsp;</P></p>
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		<title>IT Conversations &#8211; Games in education</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 May 2005 23:58:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Richards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img height="126" alt="Game" src="http://steves.seasidelife.com/game.jpg" width="101" align="left" border="0" />This is my first <em>mini review</em> of a <a href="http://www.itconversations.com/shows/detail435.html">talk from IT conversations</a>, it is an interview by Moira Gunn with <a href="http://web.mit.edu/21fms/www/faculty/henry3/">Dr. Henry Jenkins</a> and explains&#160;how he thinks video games will revolutionise education. Dr. Jenkins is the director of the <a href="http://web.mit.edu/cms/">Comparative Media Studies Program</a> at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology and the co-editor of <em><a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/exec/obidos/ASIN/0262701073/qid=1115405512/sr=8-1/ref=sr_8_xs_ap_i1_xgl/026-2258295-0384406">Rethinking Media Change: The Aesthetics of Transition (Media in Transition)</a>.</em>&#160;&#160; The talk is truly fascinating, and pretty scary when you think about the dramatic affects it will have on the capability and outlook that the kids of the future.&#160; Surprisingly this talk and others point out that the gamer generation will have different attitudes to work and will need to be managed differently, <a href="http://www.itconversations.com/shows/detail436.html">this talk</a> by John Beck, a Senior Research Fellow at USC's <a href="http://www.digitalcenter.org/">Annenberg Center of the Digital Future</a>, is on that topic.</p><p>I particularly liked the description of the teacher, as more of a coach and leader, and the emphasis on experience as a tool for learning.&#160; In the games that bring history to life it is interesting how it will be possible to provide a real insight into what life was actually like for those experiencing key events from different ...



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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><P><IMG height=126 alt=Game src="http://steves.seasidelife.com/game.jpg" width=101 align=left border=0>This is my first <EM>mini review</EM>&nbsp;of a <a href="http://www.itconversations.com/shows/detail435.html">talk from IT conversations</A>, it is an interview by Moira Gunn with <a href="http://web.mit.edu/21fms/www/faculty/henry3/">Dr. Henry Jenkins</A> and explains&nbsp;how he thinks video games will revolutionise education. Dr. Jenkins is the director of the <a href="http://web.mit.edu/cms/">Comparative Media Studies Program</A> at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology and the co-editor of <EM><a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/exec/obidos/ASIN/0262701073/qid=1115405512/sr=8-1/ref=sr_8_xs_ap_i1_xgl/026-2258295-0384406">Rethinking Media Change: The Aesthetics of Transition (Media in Transition)</A>.</EM>&nbsp;&nbsp; The talk is truly fascinating, and pretty scary when you think about the dramatic affects it will have on the capability and outlook that the kids of the future.&nbsp; Surprisingly this talk and others point out that the gamer generation will have different attitudes to work and will need to be managed differently, <a href="http://www.itconversations.com/shows/detail436.html">this talk</A> by John Beck, a Senior Research Fellow at USC&#8217;s <a href="http://www.digitalcenter.org/">Annenberg Center of the Digital Future</A>, is on that topic.</P> <P>I particularly liked the description of the teacher, as more of a coach and leader, and the emphasis on experience as a tool for learning.&nbsp; In the games that bring history to life it is interesting how it will be possible to provide a real insight into what life was actually like for those experiencing key events from different perspectives, it will no longer to a sequential textbook description.&nbsp; He also talks about a science game where students try and master magnetic fields by learning to navigate through them, the teacher then explains the theory and the kids can try again this time with an evolved understanding of&nbsp;the underlying theory.&nbsp; He mentions that in the classroom of the future kids will use textbooks as &#8220;cheat sheets&#8221; that help them play the game better.&nbsp; This is much more true to life in the real world which is of course all about doing things and researching to do things better.</P> <P>The best part of the talk was where Henry talked about about the process of producing a game.&nbsp; The producer asks the teacher &#8220;why are we teaching this &#8211; what is its purpose&#8221; ie what is the relevance of the knowledge learned to some real activity.&nbsp; You would hope that the teachers had a good answer but invariably I suspect the answer is &#8220;it&#8217;s important&#8221;.&nbsp; As someone who likes to learn by experience and apply what I have learned the whole talk was music to my ears.</P> <P>That said I am not a gamer! why? because I am worried that I will get drawn into it and never get any work done or spend time with my family etc,&nbsp; I have an addictive personality and games certainly sound addictive!</P> <P>If you want more, then try reading this interview on <a href="http://www.penny-arcade.com/lodjenkins.php3">Education and Violence</A>, these <a href="http://mitpress.mit.edu/catalog/author/default.asp?aid=279">books</A>,&nbsp; and this <a href="http://www.gamecritics.com/feature/interview/jenkins/page01.php">wide ranging interview</A>. </P></p>
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		<title>Bank holiday weekend</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 May 2005 20:03:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Richards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img height="225" alt="Picture045_02May05" src="http://steves.seasidelife.com/Picture045_02May05_small.jpg" width="300" align="right" border="0" />It&#8217;s been a few months since I have been&#160;well enough&#160;to taking the kids out playing on the beach, so this bank holiday weekend has been pretty special.&#160; We have played ball games every day on our local beach and today we went into Blackpool early (never go into Blackpool late on a bank holiday unless you like the &#8220;party atmosphere&#8221; &#8211;&#160;ie drunken louts!).&#160; Anyway early on a sunny day is great fun.&#160; The girls spent an hour in the amusements and we had a good root round the shops and good fun on the beach.</p>



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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img height="225" alt="Picture045_02May05" src="http://steves.seasidelife.com/Picture045_02May05_small.jpg" width="300" align="right" border="0" />It&rsquo;s been a few months since I have been&nbsp;well enough&nbsp;to taking the kids out playing on the beach, so this bank holiday weekend has been pretty special.&nbsp; We have played ball games every day on our local beach and today we went into Blackpool early (never go into Blackpool late on a bank holiday unless you like the &ldquo;party atmosphere&rdquo; &ndash;&nbsp;ie drunken louts!).&nbsp; Anyway early on a sunny day is great fun.&nbsp; The girls spent an hour in the amusements and we had a good root round the shops and good fun on the beach.</p>
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		<title>Sharing and giving</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Mar 2005 23:39:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Richards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img height="149" alt="Stawberries" src="http://steves.seasidelife.com/stawberries.jpg" width="112" align="right" border="0" />On Saturday I started to pull up all of the strawberry plants that had rooted from runners last year.&#160; I ended up with several hundred plants in a big heap.&#160; I decided that it would be a good idea to give them away, but my wife thought no one would be interested.&#160; I took this as a bit of a challenge,&#160; I am one of those people who likes to think the best of others (which is an extension of having a positive outlook) my wife in contrast always expects things to go wrong and tends to distrust those she doesn&#8217;t know.&#160; Anyway I bagged the plants up &#8211; 15 plants to a bag &#8211; and to make the challenge more interesting decided to give the plants away but allow for donations.</p><p>My eldest daughter, Stephie, made a lovely sign and we put the 15 bags of plants in a big plastic container on the path outside the house.&#160; The sign read &#8211; Free Strawberries &#8211; and was nicely illustrated.&#160; Next to the container was a small wooden bowl which I put a little loose change in; to get things going.&#160; After three days all 15 bags have gone, we ...



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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><P><IMG height=149 alt=Stawberries src="http://steves.seasidelife.com/stawberries.jpg" width=112 align=right border=0>On Saturday I started to pull up all of the strawberry plants that had rooted from runners last year.&nbsp; I ended up with several hundred plants in a big heap.&nbsp; I decided that it would be a good idea to give them away, but my wife though tno one would be interested.&nbsp; I took this as a bit of a challenge,&nbsp; I am one of those people who likes to think the best of others (which is an extension of having a positive outlook) my wife in contrast always expects things to go wrong and tends to distrust those she doesn&#8217;t know.&nbsp; Anyway I bagged the plants up &#8211; 15 plants to a bag &#8211; and to make the challenge more interesting decided to give the plants away but allow for donations.</P> <P>My eldest daughter, Stephie, made a lovely sign and we put the 15 bags of plants in a big plastic container on the path outside the house.&nbsp; The sign read &#8211; Free Strawberries &#8211; and was nicely illustrated.&nbsp; Next to the container was a small wooden bowl which I put a little loose change in; to get things going.&nbsp; After three days all 15 bags have gone, we collected about &#163;5 in donations and so far as I can tell, none of the donated money was removed.</P> <P>I thought it was a pretty good illustration of my view on life:</P> <UL> <LI>I gave something away which made me feel good</LI> <LI>I provided the opportunity for donation, but no obligation, and most people donated</LI> <LI>At least 15 people appreciated the gesture, so that made them feel good</LI> <LI>No one stole any of the money, or took an unfair number of plants, (the bags went roughly 1 at a time), so I feel better about my neighbourhood</LI> <LI>Hopefully people will enjoy the crop for years to come</LI> <LI>Hopefully a few more people will stop and chat as the year progresses</LI> <LI>Maybe others will do the same with other plants and spare produce and community spirit will improve, we will see</LI></UL> <P>We give a lot to charity and to charity shops, but this tiny experiment was a much more direct way of engaging with the community and redistributing excess.&nbsp; It was also interesting to see the effect on the kids who were fascinated by the whole process, and it was all I could do to stop them from perching at the front of the house and becoming market sales girls, not because of the money but because of the enjoyable banter they engaged in on a fine spring day.</P></p>
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		<title>Looking Back</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Dec 2004 21:46:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Richards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt">I thought I would take the opportunity to look back on my year (and a funny old year it&#8217;s been) before looking forward to the new year in a few days. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#160;</SPAN>It&#8217;s nice and quiet in the house and after such a lovely time (Christmas Morning) it&#8217;s left me in an appropriately reflective mood, so here goes:</P>

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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><STRONG>Health</STRONG></STRONG></P>

<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt">What a year it&#8217;s been, around the middle of January 2004 I started with another flare of Adult Onset Still&#8217;s Disease, which had been in remission for about 8 months. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#160;</SPAN>This time no remission has occurred and one year on I am still suffering. However I have come to terms with it well and am approaching the point after many experiments (often painful) and lots of record keeping, research and analysis I think I am on the brink of getting things under control. ...

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt">I thought I would take the opportunity to look back on my year (and a funny old year it&#8217;s been) before looking forward to the new year in a few days. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>It&#8217;s nice and quiet in the house and after such a lovely time (Christmas Morning) it&#8217;s left me in an appropriately reflective mood, so here goes:</P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><STRONG>Health</STRONG></STRONG></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt">What a year it&#8217;s been, around the middle of January 2004 I started with another flare of Adult Onset Still&#8217;s Disease, which had been in remission for about 8 months. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>This time no remission has occurred and one year on I am still suffering. However I have come to terms with it well and am approaching the point after many experiments (often painful) and lots of record keeping, research and analysis I think I am on the brink of getting things under control.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>My Specialists now think as well as AOSD I have two other secondary auto-immune disorders Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and Fibromyalgia.</P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt">The conditions are very unpredictable resulting in a great difficulty in planning things, so living in the moment has become the order of the day.</P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt">Also for all of the conditions exercise and variety of movement and activity are essential which means that although I work from home my days have a lot of variety with (when I can manage it) lots of beach walking, swimming, walking to the shops, trampolining in the garden, reading in the garden, working on the beach or beach side Cafes, as well as working in my very well equipped home office.</P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><STRONG>Happiness</STRONG></STRONG></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt">I decided to start the review with Health </STRONG>because its pretty negative, which makes this section all the more amazing. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>I am in fact much happier this year than last year. Although I live with daily pain and frustration there are many positives I have managed to build into my life, here is a sampler:</P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P> <OL style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm" type=1> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">My work and family life are seamlessly integrated, by this I mean that whenever the opportunity arises to spend time with my family I am able to take that time and fit work around that primary commitment. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>This means I often find myself working at odd times but that&#8217;s no hassle as I have trained myself to work within my health limitations.</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">When I am tired, in pain, finding it difficult to concentrate I just do something else and being at home there&#8217;s plenty to do</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">I can take advantage of good weather, and where I live we have a very positive micro-climate that means we get much better weather than the poor folks in Preston just 20 miles inland!</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">I have trained myself to avoid frustration, this works most of the time, one of the most frustrating things for me was that my company would not invest in my productivity. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>I decided as soon as I became ill that I earned enough money to invest in my own productivity so I now have a superb working environment and IT facilities, (some paid for by the company but a lot of it a personal commitment to my well being). <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>I also invest quite a lot in my own comfort, expensive walking gear, swimming gear, bike etc &#8211; I still save quite a lot but within limits I now feel little or no guilt about spending the money I save by working from home on MYSELF.</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">I have re-discovered reading, I used to read a lot but then lapsed into business reading/reviewing dominating most of my available reading time. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>Largely because of AOSD and the need to take lots of rest and hot baths (I read in the bath) I have started reading for 1 or 2 hours a day, I joined a reading group which has exposed me to all types of books I would never have come across and the monthly discussions have been very stimulating.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>We had a Christmas party this year which was great fun with everyone talking about their favourite books and it&#8217;s becoming quite a social event.</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">I am getting loads of exercise, which probably sounds strange when you have a condition that gives you systemic/chronic muscle and joint pain and fatigue, however within limits the more you do with these conditions the better you feel.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>I love walking, swimming and cycling and live just by the sea and within a few minutes of a great health club. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>I usually have the pool to myself!<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>On some bad days I live for the exercise; when the endorphins get flowing I feel so much better than suffering in a chair trying to type with painful fingers, wrists, neck, back, ankles &#8230;</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">Although I work from home I don&#8217;t feel isolated, in fact I probably spend more time on social interaction than I did in a business oriented office environment. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>The combination of lots of eating out, reading groups, family life, social get togethers for lunch with friends, instant messenger and phone chats and the odd visit to the office are quite enough for a mild Asbergers Syndrome sufferer like myself.</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">I have discovered RSS feeds, which provide me with a constant stream of interesting reading material on all sorts of topics, (many work related), but lots on broader topics as well.</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">I have trained myself to live more in the moment, to save less and spend more on experience than things, this particularly applies to the kids who soak up a lot of money in a whole variety of music, drama and sports lessons but to see them develop is a real joy, especially for Debbie who dreams of all of them playing together.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>Debbie plays Violin and Cello, Stephie: keyboard and Viola, Jenny: Clarinet and Flute, Anna: Flute and Recorder, Tessa: Bugle and Trumpet.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>All of the girls are great singers and love drama; Stephie is also quite the academic.</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>I eat out a lot, it&#8217;s one of my real joys to eat breakfast every morning in one of our beach side Cafes,<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>I know all of the staff and after a morning walk I tend to spend an hour working there and preparing for the day. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>It&#8217;s the best start I can imagine.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>We also regularly eat out as a family, generally in places where we are well known, and any family with four lovely girls like ours quickly gets well known!</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">Work no longer dominates my life, see later &#8230;</LI></OL> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></STRONG></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><STRONG>Family</STRONG></STRONG></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt">Although it was a bit of a struggle for Debbie to suddenly have me interrupting her daily routine and having to learn to get used to not having the house to herself all day, I think she has adjusted well. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>She now has so much more freedom, gets out a lot more and has time to indulge her creativity by supporting the Church in general and the kids club she runs in particular. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>I am a fully integrated member of the family now, not just a weekend Dad and the kids seem to really enjoy that, although it does mean there is a bit more structure and discipline!</P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt">In general though I think we have done really well as a family:</P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P> <OL style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm" type=1> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">Debbie has had time to develop as her own person at last after years dominated by looking after the house and kids</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">The girls have all developed tremendously becoming much more balanced individuals, and all picking up some great life skills as well as working hard at school</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">We have managed quite a lot of holidays, thanks to Debbie&#8217;s fantastic organising, and although we have had to take the risk that I will be ok, we managed three holidays (North Wales, West Wales and <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Scotland</st1:place></st1:country-region>) and I managed to largely keep up each time</LI></OL> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></STRONG></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><STRONG>Work</STRONG></STRONG></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt">Of course work has changed dramatically for me, but in many ways the change has been positive. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>I have had to reduce my hours and work from home. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>I do less time sensitive stressful customer facing work, and concentrate on longer term internal research and strategy. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>There is a bit more of a story to tell:</P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P> <OL style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm" type=1> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">I was getting very frustrated by the degree to which politics and administration were dominating my days, requiring me to do actual creative work during the evenings &#8211; long days &#8211; this has changed completely now. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>I only work 5-6 hours a day but of that probably 5 hours a day is either research or creative activity or constructive communication, much more enjoyable</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">I was very frustrated by the poor quality of my office environment and tools &#8211; I now work at home in an office that I have designed and optimised to meet my needs. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>I share the Office with my wife which is nice (most of the time) and have spared little expense in getting things the way I want them (eBay has helped again here in making this affordable)</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">I work mainly on global projects, most of my interactions are using Instant Messenger, Conference Calls (I have a Polycom conference phone), or Email so it doesn&#8217;t matter much where I work. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>I just wish I had a Blackberry or GPRS/Wireless access from my Tablet PC but that will almost certainly be resolved next year. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN>I would love seamless/easy to use Voice/Video and application sharing with my main contacts but again it&#8217;s not too far away.</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">I bought myself a Tablet PC which has transformed the way in which I read and review, particularly because I no longer do that sitting at my desk, I now do it by the side of the swimming pool, in a deck chair in my garden, sitting in a caf&#233; watching the sunrise/sunset etc etc.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>Much better for my physical health (I need to move around a lot) and much more fun!</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">I am still trying to get my new work role fully established, I have it clear in my mind,<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>its just a the small step of getting people to agree to pay me to do it that remains, but I am confident that January will see that bought to conclusion</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">I have noticed that by being available to consult on lots of projects I am adding a surprising amount of value, every month I manage to provide advice to someone that saves &#163;50-&#163;200K, not a bad return on investment.</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">I have been disappointed to see some of my friends leave my company, but pleased to see them making a new life for themselves. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>Hopefully a few will stay as it&#8217;s nice to have a network of friends that you know you can rely on. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>I am pleased to say though that so far the people who leave still keep in touch and we are establishing quite a little community of people working for all of the major IT service Providers in the <st1:place w:st="on"><st1:country-region w:st="on">UK</st1:country-region></st1:place>!</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">My company has been very good to me in all sorts of ways, primarily people who I know and who care about me have been great, people who&#8217;s job it is to care (but don&#8217;t know me) have not been so good and the bureaucracy has been pretty abysmal &#8211; but that&#8217;s to be expected in a large company &#8211; but not forgiven!</LI></OL> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><STRONG>Summary</STRONG></STRONG></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt">I was sort of inspired to write this by <a href="http://oak-grove.blogspot.com/2004/12/my-year.html">Graham</A>, when I read his review I thought &#8211; where&#8217;s the summary &#8211; <a href="http://oak-grove.blogspot.com/2004/12/summarising-year-is-work-creative.html">he later wrote one</A>. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>Anyway here&#8217;s mine.</P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P> <OL style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm" type=1> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">A very challenging year</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">A year filled with physical pain and frustration</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">A year of successful reinvention</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">Perhaps not my best year ever but certainly better than the previous two years</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">A year of considerable reflection and preparation for an even better year next year, hopefully my best ever</LI></OL></p>
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		<title>Christmas</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Dec 2004 20:22:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Richards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt">It's Christmas day today and the girls have had a fantastic time opening and enjoying their presents.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#160; </SPAN>It started like this:</P>

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<LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">On Christmas Eve the girls were allowed to choose one present to open, inevitably they chose ones that looked most like clothes so that they could where them on Christmas morning!</LI>

<LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">They all went to bed nice and early without a peep (very unusual) as they all understand that Father Christmas misses any houses where children are awake <SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings"><SPAN style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings">J</SPAN></SPAN></LI>

<LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">Debbie and I acting as Father Christmas&#8217; helpers then packed up 4 gift bags that Father Christmas was to deliver that night to their bedrooms, one of the nice touches is that during holidays the Twins sleep in bunk beds with their older sisters instead of together.</LI>

<LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">On Christmas morning we let the kids open their presents from Santa at 7:00AM (and the rest after breakfast) although they often hold one or two back to open on boxing day; which is my Birthday.</LI>

<LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">This morning Debbie crept into their rooms just after 6:00AM and found them sitting on their beds surrounded by unopened gifts patiently waiting for 7:00 to arrive (bless) I think she let them sneak a ...



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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt">It&#8217;s Christmas day today and the girls have had a fantastic time opening and enjoying their presents.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>It started like this:</P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P> <OL style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm" type=1> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">On Christmas Eve the girls were allowed to choose one present to open, inevitably they chose ones that looked most like clothes so that they could where them on Christmas morning!</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">They all went to bed nice and early without a peep (very unusual) as they all understand that Father Christmas misses any houses where children are awake <SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings"><SPAN style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings">J</SPAN></SPAN></LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">Debbie and I acting as Father Christmas&#8217; helpers then packed up 4 gift bags that Father Christmas was to deliver that night to their bedrooms, one of the nice touches is that during holidays the Twins sleep in bunk beds with their older sisters instead of together.</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">On Christmas morning we let the kids open their presents from Santa at 7:00AM (and the rest after breakfast) although they often hold one or two back to open on boxing day; which is my Birthday.</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">This morning Debbie crept into their rooms just after 6:00AM and found them sitting on their beds surrounded by unopened gifts patiently waiting for 7:00 to arrive (bless) I think she let them sneak a few open early although I was fast asleep so the details are none too clear.</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">Just after 7:00 though they all paraded into our bedroom with their presents and to our relief could not have been happier, Santa had been very busy on eBay this year and so Christmas was not as expensive as usual but the quality of the presents, especially the array of musical instruments and accessories was amazing!</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">A very nice touch this year was that Father Christmas wrote each of the girls a lovely letter bound with ribbon that looked back on their year and what he had been most impressed with and explained why he had chosen the presents he had and what he was looking forward to them achieving next year (just the sort of thing my wife would have thought of had she been seconded to the North Pole this year <SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings"><SPAN style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings">J</SPAN></SPAN>)</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">Their present lust slated for a while, we managed a very leisurely breakfast before letting the girls loose on taking all the presents from under our giant tree in the hall into piles (per person) in the living room. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN></LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">Then another hour of present opening frenzy (my least favourite part of Christmas I am afraid) followed by tidying and filtering out the presents that would form the centre of the days activities.</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">The at 10:00 Debbie and Two of the girls went off to Church and Me and the remaining two kids went for a nice walk along the beach, we dropped in on our friends at the Caf&#233;/restaurants who were preparing for their Christmas customers and then rushed home to make some fresh bread for our buffet lunch.</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">Debbie made a fantastic buffet (I contributed the hot bread) which incredibly was all eaten and the girls went out to play in the &#8216;snow&#8217; (we had a 10 minute hail storm)</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">Everyone has just finished a biscuit snack now and are settling down to some good traditional Christmas TV, while Debbie prepares our roast dinner!</LI> <LI class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt">I might just go out for another walk though and try and walk off those biscuits and ease up my aching muscles.</LI></OL> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt">All in all the best Christmas so far I think &#8211; and a great meal and quiet TV night tonight and it&#8217;s my birthday tomorrow so it&#8217;s not over yet.</P></p>
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		<dc:creator>Steve Richards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<P>I continue to be amazed by&#160;Dave Pollard and how he manages to provide us with such thought provoking insights into <A href="http://blogs.salon.com/0002007/">How To Save The World</A> on a daily basis.&#160; To give you a glimpse of his motivation look at the following snip, and then read his <A href="http://blogs.salon.com/0002007/stories/2003/02/22/aboutTheAuthor.html">bio</A>.</P>

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<P><EM><FONT size=5>F</FONT>ive years ago, at the age of 48, I decided it was time to stop complaining and being depressed about the state of the world, and start doing something about it. I began to read voraciously, an average of two books a week, and gradually put together a picture in my own mind of the current state of the world, how we got here, and what we needed to do about it. In February of last year I started a weblog, in part because I wanted to share what I had learned, and in part to discuss it with others and find out if they felt the same way that I did</EM></P></BLOCKQUOTE>

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><P>I continue to be amazed by&nbsp;Dave Pollard and how he manages to provide us with such thought provoking insights into <a href="http://blogs.salon.com/0002007/">How To Save The World</A> on a daily basis.&nbsp; To give you a glimpse of his motivation look at the following snip, and then read his <a href="http://blogs.salon.com/0002007/stories/2003/02/22/aboutTheAuthor.html">bio</A>.</P> <BLOCKQUOTE dir=ltr style="MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px"> <P><EM><FONT size=5>F</FONT>ive years ago, at the age of 48, I decided it was time to stop complaining and being depressed about the state of the world, and start doing something about it. I began to read voraciously, an average of two books a week, and gradually put together a picture in my own mind of the current state of the world, how we got here, and what we needed to do about it. In February of last year I started a weblog, in part because I wanted to share what I had learned, and in part to discuss it with others and find out if they felt the same way that I did</EM></P></BLOCKQUOTE> <P>&nbsp;</P></p>
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